After all, most people I know don’t have mental encyclopedias of sex positions-especially new ones-they can whip out and execute on command. But despite being turned on, I wasn’t quite sure how to translate that motivation to try something new between the sheets with my fiancé. Their sex was hot, exciting and something I’d never really seen. I felt like I was the most boring sexual being on the face of the earth-at least compared to these wild characters. I’ll be real: For me, it happened recently when I was watching an epic Game of Thrones sex scene. If you aren’t sure where to start, here are some of the most popular sex positions to help you get inspired.Solo Sex Positions to Try for a Seriously Incredible Weekend-& The Best Orgasm-Inducing Tools That’ll Get the Job Done There are really no “must try” sex positions. Are you a high priestess/priest of anal? We have a page of everything you want to know about anal sex. Shallow penetration? The Amazon will not only give you less intense cervix-action, but will make you feel like a warrior god/goddess.Īnd nearly all of these can be adapted for anal sex. Looking for deep penetration? Doggy style, the spread eagle, or flat doggy can be good options for this. And, of course, oral sex on a clitoris is fantastic as well. If you’re looking for more clitoral stimulation, positions like the Rider (aka: Cowgirl, Cowboy, Cow-person), Lotus, or the Butterfly can be great. Using toys, grinding, or getting hands involved is totally on the table.Įveryone wants something unique from sex and that’s why sex is so swell. Let’s start by making something very clear: None of these positions require penetration. Honestly, the best sex positions are the ones that feel best for you. When choosing a sex position, you’ll have to think about your specific situtation, what you’re looking to get out of it, what kind of pleasure you’re hoping to have (with or without a partner), and what is both possible and comfortable for you physically.

Good sex is about enthusiasm and pleasure, not your ability to contort your body like a pretzel.

I kid (sort of), but in all seriousness, sex positions should be about exploration and enhancing sex, not ticking off a bunch of boxes. Who is going to orgasm their face off if they’re doing their best not to break a hip? New sex positions can be exciting, but is a sex position called the Flying Saucer wherein your partner has you bent over a balcony really where it’s at? Thinking of sex as some acrobatic feat you need to conquer in order for it to be enjoyable is not only unrealisitic, but it takes all of the fun out of things. With countless articles out there touting a million different sex positions to try (and all claiming they are the best), it can be a bit overwhelming. Welcome to Kinkly’s one-stop shop for all your sex position needs.

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